Saturday, October 11, 2014
Richard Collins, Requiescat in Pace
LINEN ON THE HEDGEROW: REQUIESCAT IN PACE: It is with great personal sadness that we, the Collins Family, must inform the loyal followers of Linen on the Hedgerow, that our beauti...
Friday, October 10, 2014
If Loving God Makes You Weird, So Be It!
Working among the God-less people got a little more challenging this week. After listening to an endless litany (from which there was no escape) about same-sex "marriage", sperm donors and religious weird people, I finally broke my silence and asked: How are you defining weird? To which came the response: "Maybe I'd better drop this subject" to which I had to bite my tongue to refrain from saying: "Maybe you should never have started it in the first place."
My some-time spiritual director listened patiently as I recalled the situation for him. He had one simple piece of advice: Next time, tell them if loving God makes you a weirdo, so be it.
I know that such people are to be pitied, prayed for and not judged. After all, I have quite a bit of my own baggage to haul that I don't need to take on anyone else's. Sometimes, it's just so hard to resort to the Christian thing to do and pray for such people instead of battling the desire to debate them.
I also have to remember to pray for their children. There but for the grace of God...
My some-time spiritual director listened patiently as I recalled the situation for him. He had one simple piece of advice: Next time, tell them if loving God makes you a weirdo, so be it.
I know that such people are to be pitied, prayed for and not judged. After all, I have quite a bit of my own baggage to haul that I don't need to take on anyone else's. Sometimes, it's just so hard to resort to the Christian thing to do and pray for such people instead of battling the desire to debate them.
I also have to remember to pray for their children. There but for the grace of God...
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