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Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Reach Out and Touch Someone

In today's Gospel from St. Mark, we see two miracles that involve the sense of touch. A woman suffering from abnormal bleeding for years believes that all she has to do is touch the hem of the Lord's garment to receive healing. You can imagine the exasperation of the hapless apostles when Jesus asks them "Who touched my garment?" They respond: "You see the size of the crowd and you want to know who touched you?" Once again, they don't squander an opportunity to give the wrong answer, opening the door to another lesson. Then Jesus is told that a little girl, the daughter of Jairus, has died. Before reaching her house, He told the father that the child was only sleeping. He advises the father to have faith. To the little girl He says: "Talitha cumi", as He takes her by the hand, and she awakes. He then tells her parents to give her something to eat. In Aramaic, talitha cumi means "little maid, arise."

It's not often that the exact words Jesus used appear in the Gospel. In fact, I ask to be corrected if I'm wrong, but I believe the only other time is when Jesus is in His final agony and cries out to His Father from the cross. Why do you suppose that is?

Meanwhile, back at the ranch, a patient was very irate about something that happened today that might affect her surgery date. I did everything I could to console her, and even urged her to yell at me if it would make her feel better. I called the surgeon for her to get his reassurance that if she had to be cancelled, he would do all he could to fit her in as soon as possible. She wasn't buying it. She had a right to be angry, and she had every intention of fully exercising it.

What was it that finally won her over? The nurse who had to draw her blood was giving her some instructions and conveying her sympathy for a mix-up that was not her fault. As she was seeing the patient to the door she asked: "Can I give you a hug? I think you need one." And with that, the woman stopped railing at us and hugged the nurse back.

Why didn't I think of that?

At any rate, you'd better believe I called upon the Lord, His Holy Mother and St. Therese to come to this woman's aid. I wanted to say to her "Don't worry, we'll straighten this out, your surgery will be go on as scheduled." I didn't because if there was a glitch, I would have disappointed her for nothing. If I had faith as I should, would I have hesitated? Here I was advising this woman not to let the stress get the best of her, and then all I could think of on the train ride home was "what if"? Would Jesus tell me the same thing He told Jairus?